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                            花腰傣族的央籮傳情

                                花腰傣實行一夫一妻的婚姻制。婚前戀愛自由,歷經:“串寨”擇偶;照電筒約會;花街吃“央籮飯”定情;托媒提親;雙方父母“聯萬勞”交換酒杯喝酒議婚,方能結婚。

                              月朗風清的夜晚,是小“卜冒”串寨尋偶的好時機,他們用竹笛、小三弦彈吐出自己的心聲,吸引小“卜少”前來相會。雙方通過串寨相識后,到花街節相會吃“央籮飯”、送訂情物(女送花腰帶,男送銀手鐲等物),小“卜少”把一扇飯盒交給小“卜冒”帶回去,讓媒人提親時帶來相合,父母才能議婚。“卜少”從花街回到家中,父母看到姑娘少了一扇飯盒,便知道女兒找到了心上人,心里十分高興。而“卜少”則懷著惴惴不安的心情,等待著男方托人上門提親的佳音。

                              “照電筒”是在古老的“串寨”尋偶基礎上發展愛情關系的約會形式。男女青年運用現代照明工具,在路邊照射,尋找自己的心上人。如果錯照了人,也不會貢怪對方,反而會發出“哦”的一聲歡笑。找到對象后。成雙成對到大樹下、竹叢中娓娓交談,傾訴思想感情,轉告父母對青年定情后的態度,商議催促父母托人提親的日子……晚風送爽,草木溢香,玉免穿云,群星燦爛,螢火蟲飛舞閃亮,電筒光此起彼落,交織成傣鄉五彩繽紛、神奇瑰麗的夜景。

                              父母經過一番了解,同意兒子與在花街吃過訂情飯的小“卜少”定親后,就請善于言辭的中年人去提親。帶去用飯盒包好的糯米飯,內裝臘肉、干巴、腋鴨蛋、酸炸等菜肴,意為聯姻飯。“卜冒”還要把“卜少”在花街吃“央籮飯”定情時留給的1扇飯盒交媒人帶去。女方父母看到帶來的那扇飯盒,拿出女兒留下的1扇合在一起,沒有縫隙,知道是女兒的意中人托媒來提親,便會欣然應允。收下聯姻飯,盛情款待媒人,商定雙方老人會面“聯萬勞”的日子。

                              “聯萬勞”即男女兩家老人換杯喝酒,或喝小酒。由男方的父母提著一只雞、一只鴨和一壺酒到女家議婚定親。女家設宴招待,并請親戚作陪,參加議婚。對男家的家庭及聘禮滿不滿意,主家不好意思言講,親戚會幫忙提議。席上,雙方互相敬酒,兩親家互相介紹家庭和兒女情況,心意相合,就喝換杯酒。男家從背籮中取出一雙六方銀鐲,送給女方的母親作為喂奶費(撫養費);把一套結親時新娘穿的盛裝拿出交給女家。親戚認真看過,無異議時,女家便收下男家帶來的雞、鴨,表示已收下聘禮,親事鴨(押)定了。


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